Well.. wow.

[Spartan-II]

So earlier today I learned from my girlfriend that one of her guys friends was over. Hey, no big deal, i'm not over protective and I didn't care. After he left she sent me a text saying 'Well.. that was kind of awkward.' so naturally I asked. Turns out he was saying how much he liked her, that he would like to date her, and that if she wasn't dating me that they would probably be fucking because her mom wasn't home.

Not fucking cool.

So, I send the guy a message, saying that I did not appreciate his disrespect, and that if he didn't cut the shit I was going to teach him a lesson.

He wasn't online all day, so I let it drift from my mind. So, I get home from the store and I find a message from him calling me a pussy and saying that he would like to see me 'teach him a lesson'.

So I did.

I went to the spot he told me too, but lo and behold! He isn't there! So i'm waiting, i'm stretching, psyching myself up, getting prepared. Not by coincidence, the place where we were fighting was in the proximity of my girlfriends house. After a few more minutes, my girlfriend pops out of her house. He called her, asking her to see if I was there.

I was in a fucking rage at that point, he dragged her into this, I really did not want to drag her into it.

So she tells him.

Few minutes later, I see him walking down the sidewalk. He says something to her. (She was standing close by) So he walks towards me, I nod and say 'Justin.' No response.

He walks up, drew back, and left himself completely open. I stepped into the opening, and was going for a heel-palm to break his nose. He deflects a bit, and dodges his head. I step back a little bit, get my left arm around his neck, and get him in a good headlock. I promptly hit him twice in the gut (Pretty weak hits) and then hit him 3-4 times in the face. I offer to let him go if he gives up, but there'll be no giving up for him. So he put up a decent struggle, and I let him out of the headlock. I draw back into a fighting stance, and he takes a step back.

He promptly says 'Whatcha backing up for pussy?'

'Do you know nothing about fighting you fucking moron?' I reply.

So, I reset, and he takes a step forward. Back into my fighting stance.

More comments.

So, doing what I expected, he turns around and begins walking away. So naturally, I scream at him and tell him to get the fuck back here. He turns around, and I set into my stance talking shit the entire time. He calls me a pussy and starts walking away.

Now consider the fact that a 6' 160 pound enraged teenager is screaming at the top of his lungs, and you'll understand that neighbors are poking their heads out, cops are called, you know the drill.

So, I walk up behind him, (I'm waring my big heavy steel toed boots. Any advantage is fine with me) and kick him hard in the right thigh. Apparently, the steel toe wrapped around his leg and hit him in the testicles. I didn't mean to hit him, but I guess that's what happened.

So, I allow him to walk away. Girlfriend comes out of the house. I have no clue how mad she is. The adrenaline starts to fade, I start shaking and my voice does too. Her mom is of course, angry, and I ask her how mad she is. She says she isn't sure. Bad sign.

So, I apologize to her mom, explain myself, the entire time stammering like an idiot. My moms boyfriend (He drove me, I had him there so he could break up the fight in case things went too far either way.) gives a very succinct summary of events, and says we have to leave. I apologize, give her a hug and a kiss goodbye and now i'm home, kind of nauseous from the adrenaline rush.

I don't think she's too mad at me, I talked to her on the phone. Apparently since he lives so close to her, she got a look at his face. I broke the skin on his right cheekbone, busted a lip, and she thought I was wearing rings because of the imprints my knuckles left on his face.

Now.. should I be mad at her for seeing him after I beat him, or what? I don't want to be, but a part of me thinks I should be mad. She even said 'I kinda feel like a bad girlfriend, i'm not mad at Justin at all..'

Apparently he was pretty high. His fault for not fighting in tip-top condition.

I just need to get it off my chest and stuff.. not bragging. I kind of regret doing it now, although I preserved my self respect by doing what I said I would do.

(He's about an inch taller than me, but that was evened out because I wore my boots. I'm also stronger than him, he was pretty skinny.)

Update: She's mad at him for saying what he did in the messages he sent to me, and she's agitated at me for not letting her handle it herself. It reminded her of her ex.. he wasn't a great guy to say the least. I should have let her handle it and avoid all this mess. Shit.

[MatGeo]

Heh a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do, but... well I broke the skin on his right cheekbone, busted a lip, and she thought I was wearing rings because of the imprints my knuckles left on his face. I'm not sure thats a good way to solve problems.

You should've tried to talk your way out of it.

But of course that's me, and I could be wrong but meh. As long as you won't have problems with the cops and your gf doesn't get pissed off you're fine. ;)

[SuiCidAl-KiSmEt]

Maybe if all of you talk it out mighta work and you could've kept your girlfriend without any mess.

It's hard to say, the guy probably deserves a few punches in the face. He goes after someone's girlfriend, no one can't say there wouldn't been any trouble. Don't regret anything.

[Zeltaris]

Somehow, I don't think talking would work that well with someone who "was saying how much he liked her, that he would like to date her, and that if she wasn't dating [spartan] that they would probably be fucking because her mom wasn't home."
Apparently, the steel toe wrapped around his leg and hit him in the testicles. I didn't mean to hit him, but I guess that's what happened.
Assuming you hit him on the side of the thigh... wow, sounds like your feet are pretty long and flexible >_>

[bobboy]

Seriously, talking doesn't work for this kind of person. And really, how the hell did that happen? The kick missing that far. Lol pretty amazin.

But anyway, what you must realize is that that is in the past, and you can't change that. Get over that and see what you can do NOW to avoid conflict with ur gf or that guy and etc.

[Spartan-II]

Keep her?

We're still together kismet, she's just kind of annoyed with me for taking it into my own hands when she said she would take care of it.

I just kind of have the habit of getting things done myself because I don't expect other people to get things done. @ Zelt: Yeah, actually, they are.

I slept like a baby though.

[Giggilyomeromicon]

You should have used The World and steamrolled him dead. WRYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!

[TheListener]

I'm going to be honest and say that is exactly what I would do. Down to every action. I don't flight sloppy, you stay in a boxing stance. I would be pissed at her though, more pissed at him. And it made me smile that you wrote you were shaking/stuttering, that's always what I do after a fight or close confrontation.

You did what was necessary in my opinion. If she was willing to take in "we would be fucking if mom wasn't here" without calling you, I don't think that's what a very good girlfriend does. I'm not going to say "leave her" or "keep her, Im sure she didnt mean anything" because I'm not aware of your situation and how long you've known each other. That guy showed some serious lack of respect even for a kid that's just got blazed, I don't even go after my friend's ex-girlfriends. You should have given him a smart uppercut and ended the fight with a snappy line like "You'd be dead if your mom wasn't around!"

:P

Otherwise, good show.

[Spartan-II]

It wasn't a boxing stance. I took Kenpo Karate for a year, and I was using their fighting stance. Right leg back, (I also have a hurt right knee, accident from earlier yesterday before the fight) left leg at an angle to deflect kicks, one hand forward in a guard and the other hand back ready to strike.

That's what I told him, and it's what I told her. It's his own fault for talking so much shit when he's fucked up. Maybe he'll think before he pulls stupid shit like that again. Also, she told me this morning she isn't really mad at me anymore. Just kind of annoyed that I fought him instead of letting her take care of it.

[Zenox]

Well, you should have gave your GF time to try and fix it, but i think you did what any hard loving guy would do, disrespecting you and your girl you shouldn't be sorry for that in fact he was the one that accepted the fight.

[Battlecruiser]

I guess you did the right thing. I know when someone talks smack and you don't do anything about it, it's a horrible feeling. He probably deserved it anyway, considering the way you described him.

The ball kick was a pretty low thing to do, even if it was an accident. Shouldn't be kicking people in the first place. But, then again, you might have just sterilized him, so I guess he won't be coming after your girlfriend anymore.
Anyway, it's over now, so don't worry about it.

[Spartan-II]

I only kicked him because I was enraged that he was running away. You either forfeit or you kick my ass.

And yeah.. it's over. She's not too mad at me and we're going on vacation today, so cheers everyone.

[U-238]

We're still together kismet, she's just kind of annoyed with me for taking it into my own hands when she said she would take care of it.

If there's 1 thing I know about girls it's this: NEVER "let them take care of it" in this type of situation. Not if you want to keep her around that is.

[Spartan-II]

Why do you think I did what I did?

She's not the type of girl who'd screw me over like that but I don't give anyone the chance. :\

[GenocideAlive]

Fighting is stupid. You're lucky you didn't go to jail or get stabbed. You still could, I guess.

As for this chick, I'm surprised you care if she's mad at you. Any chick who'd let some dude say that to her and walk away without a slap to the face is either A. Considering what he said or B. Scared to do anything about it. I wouldn't let her give you any shit about "not letting her handle it", because obviously she wasn't handling it.

Some dude telling my wife talking about how if she wasn't married they'd be fucking and then continually calling her clearly isn't getting the message he should. Fighting was idiotic (and btw, you still could get sued), but I really don't get her whole "let me handle it" BS when she's feeding that drama by taking his calls. His number should have been blocked and he should have gotten a clear "no call, no show" sign.

Long story short, don't sacrifice your future for someone that may not be worth it.

[Ubergopher]

Fighting is stupid. You're lucky you didn't go to jail or get stabbed. You still could, I guess.

As for this chick, I'm surprised you care if she's mad at you. Any chick who'd let some dude say that to her and walk away without a slap to the face is either A. Considering what he said or B. Scared to do anything about it. I wouldn't let her give you any shit about "not letting her handle it", because obviously she wasn't handling it.

Some dude telling my wife talking about how if she wasn't married they'd be fucking and then continually calling her clearly isn't getting the message he should. Fighting was idiotic (and btw, you still could get sued), but I really don't get her whole "let me handle it" BS when she's feeding that drama by taking his calls. His number should have been blocked and he should have gotten a clear "no call, no show" sign.

Long story short, don't sacrifice your future for someone that may not be worth it.
I do believe that is the best post in the thread. +rep.

[Black.Ice]

Fighting? That's pathetic man.

I mean, seriously, what the fuck... you fought over some girl for some moronic cause? I mean, can't you even control yourself and keep a level head? What the hell did you accomplish? Absolutely nothing, besides a few pride points to stroke your ego with. What did he get? An ass whooping. What did your g/f get? A little bit of drama of having two guys fight over her or some shit.

If some dude said that to a girl I was with, and she just sat there and nodded or didn't say anything to me afterwards, I would have questioned our relationship together.

Fighting is acceptable in some situations, such as self-defense. Fighting to prove a point is idiotic. I've gotten a lot of shit in my life with people insulting me and stuff, and I've only had to fight a couple of times out of self defense, and even then it wasn't anything serious.

So what if he called you a pussy? So what if he insulted you? Does me calling you a pussy make you one? No. You're still the same person. My dad has a saying that I think applies here...

"Aik admee thumaraku gadha pukara tho, thum gadha banjatay kya?"

"If someone calls you a donkey, do you turn into one?"

I don't know. Each person has their own way of resolving problems. In my opinion, I think you handled it poorly.

[Spartan-II]

I really have nothing to say to those posts, except you're right.

I'm a hot head though.. that's something that i'll have to keep in mind from now on. When you put it that way B.I., and GA, it really does make me feel small and idiotic.

What's done is done.. I just hope he doesn't hold a grudge. I don't want to have to deal with that.

Also - The comments about her.. are true even though I don't want to hear them.

Thanks for the input.

Also - He wouldn't dare pursue legal action against me. He was just let off house arrest for a possession charge. If he admitted he was fighting the consequences for him would be pretty harsh.

GA - You're the online person who can actually make me rethink my position just by stating yours, online. You're clear headed, intelligent, and I just wanted you to know that I respect you even though i've never met you. I think i've come away from this at least a bit wiser.

[Gunmonk]

Spartan, I give you props for what you did. My ex slept around on me I found the bastard and I kicked his ass. Heard about a guy beating on his girldriend at school, I confronted him about it and let just say I didn't win that one there was a nice cut on the back of my shoulder from a locker in the locker room. But hell I dont think that guy will ever touch that girl again seeing as how she is now one of my best friends. But this is my point You and I are alot alike. We both fight for what we love respect and are willing to take a couple blows for it as well. Good work, I would have done the same thing if not worse.

Some dude telling my wife talking about how if she wasn't married they'd be fucking and then continually calling her clearly isn't getting the message he should. Fighting was idiotic (and btw, you still could get sued), but I really don't get her whole "let me handle it" BS when she's feeding that drama by taking his calls. His number should have been blocked and he should have gotten a clear "no call, no show" sign.

And you wouldnt kick his ass? people like that dont derserve to live ask my girlfriend and she'll tell you why. Cause people like that come back and start to force themselves upon the girl and then the pissed off boyfriend has to kick someone pathetic ass. Although GA I do see and understand your point. The way I was raised tho was that you dont hit a woman threaten a woman or do anything to disgrace her either. I mean people should be able to talk this out but personally if the SOB is going to hold it over my head forever I'd rather geterdun right there. I dunno because I understand why I would fight but I also understand that it would be better to reach an understanding.

[GenocideAlive]

I have never been in a fight outside of a sport in an arena since I can remember, which is about to 5th grade. I was a skinny kid up until around my junior year in college, and after that I knew better. I worked as a bouncer for a couple years and never once got into a fight, and wouldn't have for any reason short of weapons being involved.

I grew up in some pretty rough places. Fighting was never, ever a fun thing. If you lost, you probably got hospitalized because they stomped your ass until it got boring (read: you fell unconscious and your face was too bloody / fucked up to discern further damage). If you won, you probably have around 24 hours before that person and about 3 of their friends corner you and hurt you. "Lucky" at that point isn't winning the fight against 3 of them, it's avoiding permanent damage or death.

Arranged fights are extremely dangerous, though Spartan at least had the sense to bring along an adult. Arranging ahead of time gives them the opportunity to prepare ahead of time; they can arm themselves, gather friends, whatever they want to do. Then when you arrive, *bam* they jump you with 4 friends and switchblades. If your adult buddy is smart, he tries to simply pull your body away from them before they do serious damage and you run away. If he's stupid, he tries to help you fight and you both go to the hospital, or the morgue depending on different factors.

When it all goes to court, it'll be the standard your word against his. That means it's incredibly difficult to prove anything and you're probably spinning your wheels more than anything else. Meanwhile, your opponent will be waiting for his opportunity. Queue "anonymous" property damage to your car, house, etc.

Any fight that I attended for any reason would include an uninvolved third party prepared to shoot a weapon and two guns. Not that I would shoot someone that wanted to fistfight, but seriously--we're all one index finger twitch away from finding out what's on the other side.

[Gunmonk]

I have never been in a fight outside of a sport in an arena since I can remember, which is about to 5th grade. I was a skinny kid up until around my junior year in college, and after that I knew better. I worked as a bouncer for a couple years and never once got into a fight, and wouldn't have for any reason short of weapons being involved.

I grew up in some pretty rough places. Fighting was never, ever a fun thing. If you lost, you probably got hospitalized because they stomped your ass until it got boring (read: you fell unconscious and your face was too bloody / fucked up to discern further damage). If you won, you probably have around 24 hours before that person and about 3 of their friends corner you and hurt you. "Lucky" at that point isn't winning the fight against 3 of them, it's avoiding permanent damage or death.

Arranged fights are extremely dangerous, though Spartan at least had the sense to bring along an adult. Arranging ahead of time gives them the opportunity to prepare ahead of time; they can arm themselves, gather friends, whatever they want to do. Then when you arrive, *bam* they jump you with 4 friends and switchblades. If your adult buddy is smart, he tries to simply pull your body away from them before they do serious damage and you run away. If he's stupid, he tries to help you fight and you both go to the hospital, or the morgue depending on different factors.

When it all goes to court, it'll be the standard your word against his. That means it's incredibly difficult to prove anything and you're probably spinning your wheels more than anything else. Meanwhile, your opponent will be waiting for his opportunity. Queue "anonymous" property damage to your car, house, etc.

Any fight that I attended for any reason would include an uninvolved third party prepared to shoot a weapon and two guns. Not that I would shoot someone that wanted to fistfight, but seriously--we're all one index finger twitch away from finding out what's on the other side.

I must admit when going into a fight (if that is the course you choose) then it really does help to have a contingency. That contigency can be what you choose. I live in what some might call the ghetto a wonderful place called Alief Texas, and believe me there have been some times that I've been scared and had wished that I had taken something along with me for protection. There have been times that I have slept with my switchblade under my pillow cause I pissed some guy off. All this to say its usualy a good idea to not fight unless attacked or given propable cause (i.e. some deusch breaks into your house, guy has gun [however if you dont have a gun or are the intennded target and in the line of fire I would advise not to shoot], or you see a guy roughing up some chic and I honestly dont care who it is if you hit a girl in my book you have no right to live.) but I digress. Fighting is something best done out of protection or nessecity. Trying to find a "peaceable" solution is usualy the better way out. I say that because when you kick some guys butt and the guy is in a gang you got thirty plus guys on your ass

[TheListener]

I have never been in a fight outside of a sport in an arena since I can remember, which is about to 5th grade. I was a skinny kid up until around my junior year in college, and after that I knew better. I worked as a bouncer for a couple years and never once got into a fight, and wouldn't have for any reason short of weapons being involved.

I grew up in some pretty rough places. Fighting was never, ever a fun thing. If you lost, you probably got hospitalized because they stomped your ass until it got boring (read: you fell unconscious and your face was too bloody / fucked up to discern further damage). If you won, you probably have around 24 hours before that person and about 3 of their friends corner you and hurt you. "Lucky" at that point isn't winning the fight against 3 of them, it's avoiding permanent damage or death.

Arranged fights are extremely dangerous, though Spartan at least had the sense to bring along an adult. Arranging ahead of time gives them the opportunity to prepare ahead of time; they can arm themselves, gather friends, whatever they want to do. Then when you arrive, *bam* they jump you with 4 friends and switchblades. If your adult buddy is smart, he tries to simply pull your body away from them before they do serious damage and you run away. If he's stupid, he tries to help you fight and you both go to the hospital, or the morgue depending on different factors.

When it all goes to court, it'll be the standard your word against his. That means it's incredibly difficult to prove anything and you're probably spinning your wheels more than anything else. Meanwhile, your opponent will be waiting for his opportunity. Queue "anonymous" property damage to your car, house, etc.

Any fight that I attended for any reason would include an uninvolved third party prepared to shoot a weapon and two guns. Not that I would shoot someone that wanted to fistfight, but seriously--we're all one index finger twitch away from finding out what's on the other side.

I can agree with you in terms of the principal of your argument, however, personally, I think I would be better off both morally and psychologically getting into a fight, whether or not I won, remaining level headed is hard in these sorts of situations, and gauging from this person's coyness and his obvious disrespect, I'm confident in saying that I would lose my composure.

Now, I'm definitely not the type of person to ever use weapons or bring friends along. I agree with you wholeheartedly on your stance on premeditated fighting, as it only leads to bad things. However, when someone begins testing your nerves, I see that as a different situation wherein you either respond immediately with a fight or allow him to get away and block his calls, which wouldn't be effective at all if he was determined. He was high, I might have let it go. But I'm not sure, it's hard to know exactly what one would do in certain situations.

[xodkrm]

Good job!!
It's good that you taught him a lesson without killing him, which is a very fine line that is hard to pull off.

[Protosschick99]

Wow. You sure did handle your business :P

But since I do not advocate violence unless it is in self defense or completely necessary to let the guy know I am not interested--I wouldn't say that this was the best thing you could have done.

For one thing--Your gf is acting stupid. Why the heck is she gonna be friends with someone that is obviosuly trying to get in her pants while she is dating you?? That doesn't make sense! It looks like she's after the drama.

If I were dating a guy who was hang'n out with a girl that was trying to steal him from me, Oh you'd BET I'd be pissed off. I'd be mad at him AND her. Her for trying to take him, and him for being stupid by disrespecting me.

Your gf is disrespecting you by still being friends with this guy. He was a complete loser--Yes we know. Talk'n smack and can't even back it up. He was disrespecting you as well, try'n to get all up on your gf like that. Just because he didn't make a pass at her (Or do we know that for sure?) doesn't mean that she should be around him.

And when I say make a pass, I mean straight out telling her, "Dump him. Come with me!" And like try to get all up on her by kissing her and stuff. COmments about if you weren't dating her they'd be doing it right now is making a pass without doing so. Does that make sense?

Blah.

Anywayz--Obviouslly your gf is in love with the drama. She likes it. I told my mom your situation and she said the same exact thing. She likes the drama being centered around her.

Honestly I like the fact that you beat this guy down, lolz--If some chick was trying to come onto my man and literally pushed my buttons enough times--I'd take a swing at her too. I'm not lying--I'm human. I make mistakes. (This happened last year actually. This homeless woman tried to take my bf away from me. So I totally feel ya. If I had ran into her again, I would've chased after her and decked her in the face for all the crap that was said behind my back to tarnish my reputation.)

My advice--Don't fight. But if it comes to it like he's just pushing your buttons and crap--Don't fight by your gf's house! :( Do it where no one is gonna get mad at you. Like your gf's mom. That's how you lose brownie points with the parents. And trust me--You want your gf's parents brownie points, lolz :P

I hope you're okay after all this :)

[ShadowGonissa]

Chick, how do you know she knew that the other guy felt that way about her before the incident at her house?

Anyway, yeah, the fighting was bad. You could've gotten yourself put in jail. As far as "letting her handle it herself", I gotta say nah. In that situation, her confronting him alone would only encourage or enrage him, and she shouldn't talk to him without you, her parents, or several of her friends that are girls. There shouldn't be a fight, but the girl should clearly indicate that all of his attempts at attracting would be rejected. If he strikes, she and those with her should defend themselves, but not fight back.

But for now what you should do is apologize to the guy if you can (definitely over the phone, but don't write an apology. Writing something like that down is bad), and apologize to your girlfriend. Then try to be mature and nice in the future, so that she won't think of you as her ex.

[IrishDutchman]

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[Spartan-II]

Just thought i'd say I had a pretty good weekend got back today.

I intend to talk with her about him. It's either his friendship or our relationship. I really don't need this shit.

[DragonPaladin]

Good. Weapons may win wars, but it is words that direct them.

[Spartan-II]

Update - It turns out the situation was much more complicated than originally thought. Also, she flat out told him that she wasn't going to do anything with him, and told him to get the hell out if he was going to act like that.

Also, i've heard from 4 different people that his cheekbone might be broken.

Why does it seem that drama is attracted to me? At least, that's what it feels like.

Maybe it's my fault?

[GenocideAlive]

Why does it seem that drama is attracted to me? At least, that's what it feels like.

Maybe it's my fault?
ahahahaha! Now you sound like PC. Just FYI before this little pity plane gets off the runway, yes it's your fault and yes you had this coming. This is one reason of many as to why "fighting is not the answer". It just hurts bodies and intensifies (and perhaps justifies?) dislike. But so anyway, be sure to keep this one coming, I think it'd be a great lesson for all in anger management and realism.

Just about the only thing that's going to save your ass is that:

1. You're a minor.

2. He showed up to the arranged meeting place.

Number one is going to be instrumental in pointing out that you're young and stupid and thus why you would ever think that this senseless bravado would improve the situation. Number two is going to be key in proving that you didn't just pick on some helpless good-intentioned young man that was minding his own business. Clearly, he intended a contest of martial skills. Otherwise, he would not have called your girlfriend (again) to affirm your presence.

Good luck, and here's hoping you get off with half of his medical bills.

[Spartan-II]

That was a thinly veiled joke.. but I guess the veil wasn't thin enough.

I'm not going to be paying any of his medical bills. He was just released from house arrest for a previous assault charge, so if he fucks up and the police find out he's been fighting.. well, I don't have to spell it out, do I?

In any event - I'm done with this. Unless he holds a grudge against me for this i'm not taking it any farther, and even then i'm not going to do anything unless he tries to start something physical.

[SpeedyWorm1]

In my opinion, you did nothing wrong. Personally I would not have let him walk away if I was that angry.

[Protosschick99]

ahahahaha! Now you sound like PC.

Gee thanks GA :P I dunno if you've noticed--But the only thing I've posted about my life has been my job. I've had a lot going on that I've decided to keep to myself :D

@ Spartan: Well buddy, I'm glad everything is getting better now. I hope everything turns out okay--For you and your gf :)

[Ktan]

In my opinion, you did nothing wrong. Personally I would not have let him walk away if I was that angry.

Here's a hint.

Grievous Bodily Harm is illegal, as well as very stupid.

[Ubergopher]

In my opinion, you did nothing wrong. Personally I would not have let him walk away if I was that angry.
You are cute, and young. Grow up then learn that there is more to life than fighting to "defend" the "love of your life"

[GenocideAlive]

Spartan, I'd love to share in your thinly veiled jokes, but honestly there's so much cartoony shit being described as REAL that almost anything is plausible at this point. I mean, you punched out some dude for calling you names and hanging out with your girlfriend. Not too terribly much seems sacred, here.

Speaking of sacred, I'm a little disturbed by PC's "hellz yeaz i'd punch dat moffakka" addition to this thread. Honestly, I don't understand why you're Christian at all, PC. I mean, you want to go on missionary trips around the world to teach people about Christ, but you'd chase down a hobo so you could deck her. Um, yeah, so about your "reputation"? Vindictive Hobo Puncher doesn't really sound like something worth of active defense.

I buy into the whole "I'm human, I make mistakes" bit, but seriously. "I like that you kicked this guy's ass?" I have absolutely no problem with "being real" and cutting the Jesus crap when you need to take care of business and all that. Jesus never really worked at a restaurant bussing tables, so I don't really think that you could blame someone for getting a little terse when they're in a time crunch @ $5.25/hr. On the other hand, the Bible explicitly covers a strict non-violence coda.

...I'm just going to stop here, I'm beyond annoyed.

[Protosschick99]

You don't know the whole story GA, which is why it seems evil. I knew this girl. She was my friend.

I don't go around wanting to punch homeless ppl, my gosh--What do you take me for? And yeah I am admitting that I liked that he put this guy in his place--So what? I like violence, violence is fun--But do I partake in it? No. Do I practice it? No. When someone tries to get all up on your man you get angry. I do. It's something I am working on. I don't profess to be perfect. Nor do I profess to be the only Christian going to Heaven.

Everyone has their own demons to fight. And angry jealousy when someone hits on my man happens to be mine.

[GenocideAlive]

I like violence, violence is fun
Are you fucking stupid? Jesus fucking Christ, how retarded. You cling to your "Divine Favor of God" horseshit like a baby to a bottle, then turn around and say "hey guys, I like violence". Do you even know what violence means? It sounds like you do, but I'm just trying to think of excuses for why someone that claims to be God's chosen would be so retarded, so vapid as to say that they like violence.
When someone tries to get all up on your man you get angry. I do. It's something I am working on. I don't profess to be perfect. Nor do I profess to be the only Christian going to Heaven.
No no no. When someone tries to "get all up" on YOUR man, YOU get angry. It's not a normal thing for females to want to punch people. And by the way, you have absolutely no right to Heaven whatsoever, so you can stop talking like you have a reserved spot; you deserve Hell just like everybody else.

[TheListener]

Are you fucking stupid? Jesus fucking Christ, how retarded. You cling to your "Divine Favor of God" horseshit like a baby to a bottle, then turn around and say "hey guys, I like violence". Do you even know what violence means? It sounds like you do, but I'm just trying to think of excuses for why someone that claims to be God's chosen would be so retarded, so vapid as to say that they like violence.

No no no. When someone tries to "get all up" on YOUR man, YOU get angry. It's not a normal thing for females to want to punch people. And by the way, you have absolutely no right to Heaven whatsoever, so you can stop talking like you have a reserved spot; you deserve Hell just like everybody else.

This post so riddled with blinding truths that I couldn't agree more with yet with silly self-contradictions and frustration-led idiocies. Despite the fact that this thread has gone so off course that Spartan could get back on and wouldn't recognise his original thread, I think that if you guys want to argue the place of retribution and justice in Christianity somewhere else.

Oh and the anger is fucking palpable.
She didn't spit on your child, GA, I don't think that it really should translate to your being livid in real life. Sure what she's saying is "fucking stupid", but nonetheless; she has to deal with her own beliefs and actions under her own terms and not yours, especially considering you don't share her beliefs.

[Ktan]

Die thread, DIE!