Your First Kiss... [Archive]

Schwitzer

04-29-2006, 3:33 AM

Depends how you define it. I remember Mummy kissing me goodnight when I was little. I also remember kissing a girl when I was really young, but this was before any emotions of attraction or lust had developed.

Following that, I've had a kiss imposed on me, if you're counting that.

Finally... yes, a "proper" kiss.

So where are we drawing the line? :P

RockGod333

04-29-2006, 3:33 AM

but ill bite

my first kiss was like a string of many kisses at the movies.

Black.Ice

04-29-2006, 3:49 AM

I think she's talking about the proper, mutually consenting, lip-to-lip, gleeful, room-spinning, moist kiss.

Wick3d

04-29-2006, 3:57 AM

On her front stoop in the rain...

LinkTheGameFreak

04-29-2006, 4:42 AM

15, at the park, a girl i was going out with named Christie Garcia, idk much else

EvilEggCracker

04-29-2006, 5:18 AM

13, at my schools open-night. This chick just kinda (literally) threw herself on me...

Pisces

04-29-2006, 6:26 AM

It was nothing special, though I like the context, I can twist it to sound really romantic, or I can twist it to sound really sexual, or normal, funny, evil, etc. but my favourite way of twisting it is the teasing way because it suits me, she had been flirting with me for a while but it took me a while to get to become interested in her so anyway: we were in bed (long story) and our legs meet and stroked each other's, I touched her hand then kissed it and so on. We were drawing lines and massaging each other's skin, after 10 minutes she start moistening her lips ready for me to kiss her and I knew that but I kept her waiting 6 hours!! untill she finally pulled me into a kiss (literally). I have done that with other girls since, it is fun.

TheBB

04-29-2006, 10:36 AM

I was 20. It's a year and three months ago or something like that. No, 4 months. Yeah.

Nuts

04-29-2006, 10:50 AM

I was 9 or 10, and two slightly older neighbor girls liked to use me for kissing practice. It was my first french kiss, much less a regular kiss. Sherry and Nadia, thanks for the memories. ;)

Graeme

04-29-2006, 11:07 AM

My first real kiss + french kiss was 2 years ago in grade eleven. Anyone that has read anna's profile on the org wikipedia should know all about that I think . . .

P.S. Nuts you lucky bastard :P.

kongurous

04-29-2006, 11:48 AM

My first kiss occured in a story I'd much rather not say here. If you absolutely have to know... PM me and I'll consider it.

Nuts

04-29-2006, 11:49 AM

My first kiss occured in a story I'd much rather not say here. If you absolutely have to know... PM me and I'll consider it.
It involved livestock, didn't it?

kongurous

04-29-2006, 11:53 AM

It involved livestock, didn't it?

I'm a redneck. I'll leave it at that, and no, it didn't involve livestock.

SarahK

04-29-2006, 12:59 PM

When did ya'llz get kissed for the first time?

Mine--Yesterday evening Age:20 http://democlan.com/forum/style_emoticons/emoticondark/blink.gif

It involved livestock, didn't it?I'm a redneck. I'll leave it at that ... it didn't involve livestock.............. ick, Oedipus.. O-o

as for me well.. yeah as others have said it depends totally on what kind of kiss you mean.. experimented when little as most do but I guess if we're talking real kiss, 14 while in secondary school.. I went to a girls' grammar with a boys grammar opposite across the road, was interesting
14 years old is the 9th year of school here, not sure if that's equivalent to US "grades", we have years instead - literally how many years you've been going to school, so last year of primary school is 6th year, first year of secondary school is 7th year, last year of secondary school is 11th year, etc

kongurous

04-29-2006, 1:19 PM

............. ick, Oedipus.. O-o

I didn't kill my father and marry my mother :P

14 years old is the 9th year of school here, not sure if that's equivalent to US "grades", we have years instead - literally how many years you've been going to school, so last year of primary school is 6th year, first year of secondary school is 7th year, last year of secondary school is 11th year, etc

If you were born at the right time, then year, 9 years in school would place you at 14 and we call your 9th year in school 9th Grade ;)

Goes like this, assuming you aren't held back:

year 1 = First Grade
year 2 = Second Grade
year 3 = Third Grade
year 4 = Fourth Grade, and so on.

Let's get back on topic, now, shall we?

TinyDancer

04-29-2006, 1:35 PM

From when I was 4-ish until I was about 10-ish, there was a boy I had been friends with since I was born (he's six months older than me, and our brothers had been best friends), and everytime we saw eachother we'd have a fake wedding, with a peck on the lips at the end. I would have just kissed him, but he's really conservative Catholic, and thought the only proper way to do it was to have a wedding first. It was really funny.

My first kiss with a guy who I was actually dating was kind of rushed, I had my dad waiting in the car, where he could see us, and the guy could see his front door cracked just a little. Out of habit (from kissing my parents goodnight, I'm shorter than most of my family) I kinda stood up on my toes, and he didn't expect that, and ended up kissing under my nose and to the side a little.

As for french kissing, I haven't actually done that with a guy yet. It's not a lack of desire to, it's a lack of opportunity to I think. Meh, oh well.

SarahK

04-29-2006, 1:40 PM

kong: Ok same as here really just different word, hah I assumed it would be different
we don't have "majors" here tho nor do we "graduate" secondary school, we do lots of separate exams for different subjects and get individual qualifications for each

As for french kissing, I haven't actually done that with a guy yet. It's not a lack of desire to, it's a lack of opportunity to I think. Mehahhhhwwwwwwww :concern:

flirt more, always werx. men are very easily manipulated once you get the hang of it... they rarely think with their brain :)

Protosschick99

04-29-2006, 1:44 PM

And yes I mean, you both consent, you're all "in love", lolz--And there are butterflies in your stomach kinda kiss. ;)

http://democlan.com/forum/style_emoticons/emoticondark/blink.gif

I waited for the right moment okay? :D It was soo awesome though omg! :D It was sooo cute! With the fireworks...And us holding each other tightly...I actually had been putting on chapstick all day, lolz. I didn't want my lips to be all nasty, lolz. And we kissed more than once--And his best friend caught us :o lolz--But I didn't care :D

EDIT: And TD--I'm soo there with ya on french kissing, I haven't french kissed anyone either :) And I like your story! It's really cute, lolz.

pixels

04-29-2006, 1:49 PM

And there are butterflies in your stomach kinda kiss. ;)
screw those butterflies, damnit

they wont go away D:<

GenocideAlive

04-29-2006, 1:52 PM

This thread sort of weirds me out. I was completely unaware that people waited until they were 20 to kiss someone. And it weirds me out. And Kong's entire story sounds freakish. And it weirds me out. Did I mention that this whole thread has been one, long weirdout?

Protosschick99

04-29-2006, 2:00 PM

kongurous

04-29-2006, 2:02 PM

And Kong's entire story sounds freakish. And it weirds me out.

God put me on this planet to be really, really weird. I think I'm succeeding so far, eh?

Spartan-II

04-29-2006, 2:03 PM

He meant us talking about it. I think it's a bit odd to share your first kiss too. I don't care what your first kiss was, truthfully.

GenocideAlive

04-29-2006, 2:04 PM

Why is it wierd? Kissing is what happenes every day of the week 24/7--You see ppl kissing in the streets, at the movies, on tv, in the park, on vacation in Hawaii, in their own homes, out in a resturant--It is perfectly natural when two ppl are attracted to each other--And you think it's wierd?
When 20 year olds started having the first kiss. That seems...surreal. Then again, I know a few guys whom are over 25 and still virgins. It may or may not have been their choice by and large, but still. It's ... weird.
You sound all conservative for the first time in your life GA :D
I'm actually pretty middle-of-the-road when it comes to most things, it's just that everybody is so fanatical around here. Ask DE, for god's sakes. I'm sure he thinks that I'm a Bush croney. But I think he left after he started losing debates in the IR.

GrassDragon

04-29-2006, 2:23 PM

Yeah, waiting until you're 20 is strange. If it had been your 100th kiss instead of your 1st, it would have felt no different, except that you may have had more leet kiss skillz.

Me 13. I was so nervous I just kind of stood there for the first one. Kisses number 2, 3, and 4 that night went much more smoothly :P

RockGod333

04-29-2006, 2:59 PM

im a pimp house alls yall ladies wanna be my *****

my hart is broken im gunna jump off a kliff
*WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

im bored:(

KexMex

04-29-2006, 3:04 PM

Quite a while ago, when a female friend of mine wanted to know how it felt to kiss somebody.

>_>

EDIT: When I say "quite a while", I mean 4 years.

U-238

04-29-2006, 4:27 PM

16 years old and I haven't kissed anyone yet! (Gawd it feels so great!)

TinyDancer

04-29-2006, 4:37 PM

ahhhhwwwwwwww :concern:

flirt more, always werx. men are very easily manipulated once you get the hang of it... they rarely think with their brain :)

Um. Maybe I don't want to just make out with a random guy?

pixels

04-29-2006, 4:40 PM

Um. Maybe I don't want to just make out with a random guy?
BLASPHEMY

anyway i suppose i didnt post with a correct reply yet so i will

outside of relatives (mother father etc) i was kissed on the bus in 2nd grade by someone who to this day refers to me as her '2nd grade boyfriend' (though shes quite different now). i dont know if i actually remember it happening :o. following this, 7th grade.

but no frenches yet. yet. (might change soon, dunno!).

Protosschick99

04-29-2006, 4:58 PM

Ya know Pixels, for some reason I thought you were MUCH older....I don't know why.....:P

And yeah seriously Sarah--Frenching some random guy is kinda...gross, lolz :P

pixels

04-29-2006, 5:01 PM

Ya know Pixels, for some reason I thought you were MUCH older....I don't know why.....:P
well, im finishing the 10th grade now.

its been a long time between kisses, yes. so what.

frazz

04-29-2006, 5:05 PM

Yeah, waiting until you're 20 is strange.
Well maybe some people want their kisses to be meaningful. I don't want to go around kissing every girl I meet.
As for me, my first kiss is kinda wierd. But mostly, it's none of your business.
PC99:
So was it that one guy you were talking about that you were in love with? Or is he gone?

MidnightGladius

04-29-2006, 5:06 PM

6th grade, and it wasn't a real kiss - just on the cheek, from my best friend the day before I moved to my present location. I didn't like it very much :/

Then again, I'm not really a big fan of physical intimacy at all, which is either due to my age (13) or my upbringing (my parents are both socially conservative Chinese).

GenocideAlive

04-29-2006, 5:10 PM

Then again, I'm not really a big fan of physical intimacy at all, which is either due to my age (13) or my upbringing (my parents are both socially conservative Chinese).
Yay awkward sex!

Protosschick99

04-29-2006, 5:16 PM

Well maybe some people want their kisses to be meaningful. I don't want to go around kissing every girl I meet.
As for me, my first kiss is kinda wierd. But mostly, it's none of your business.
PC99:
So was it that one guy you were talking about that you were in love with? Or is he gone?

He's leaving today....And yes it is him. He wanted to take me to Disney Land before he left and that's where it happened.

I dunno if this kiss has made me happier or sadder...:(

I'm sad cuz he's gone, but happy that we got to share a moment together....Well he's not exactly gone yet--I'll see him today later. I'm just all emotional right now....My mom had this love song by Michael Buble playing and I started crying cuz all I could think of was Chris and how he's moving to San Diego....

I know I haven't gone over the details of why we broke up--But it's still sensitive to me right now and I prefer to keep it to myself until I'm over it....Which I don't know how long that will last :*(

MidnightGladius

04-29-2006, 5:33 PM

Yay awkward sex!

More like awkwardness around girls at the moment - we'll jump off that bridge when we get to it.

SarahK

04-29-2006, 5:37 PM

TinyDancer

04-29-2006, 5:41 PM

And yeah seriously Sarah--Frenching some random guy is kinda...gross, lolz :P

That weirded me out for a minute before realizing that you were talking to SarahK, because my first name is Sarah.

GenocideAlive

04-29-2006, 5:46 PM

He's leaving today....And yes it is him. He wanted to take me to Disney Land before he left and that's where it happened.
So you were making out with your ex?

I thought you said it was "over" and stuff like that.

And yet...you put on chapstick all day long so you could kiss this dude later that night.

I know you were throwing a pity party for yourself and everything earlier and I wasn't on board, but please let your ex-boyfriend know that if he wants to have a pity party, I'm down. Because you're cold fucking with this dude's head and passing out mixed messages. I feel sorry for him.

TinyDancer

04-29-2006, 6:01 PM

I didnt mean random :P

I assumed she must at least like SOMEONE at her school or whatever.. maybe I was wrong then lol... Ok I guess the opportunity thing meant "no one I'd like to"?
bit confusing now

I wouldn't manipulate someone to get a kiss though. I'd want them to want it to. I'm homeschooled, but yeah, I do like a few people, but my opportunity, I mean that there's a time and a place for everything, and I generally can't find the time or the place. Or a willing victim.

So you were making out with your ex?

I thought you said it was "over" and stuff like that.

And yet...you put on chapstick all day long so you could kiss this dude later that night.

That kinda ran through my head too.

Protosschick99

04-29-2006, 6:14 PM

We both were in agreement GA. We both discussed ahead of time what was gonna happen at Disney Land. He knows it's over for now, and so do I. I understand where you are coming from--But I am not like that.

I don't send mixed messages, I let him know where I stand and he let's me know where he stands. We both kissed because we both wanted to--And I do not regret it. And just to make it clear--I did not "make out" with him--To me, making out is a big huge step--One that I am not yet ready to make :P

Neo

04-29-2006, 9:44 PM

...Ask DE, for god's sakes. I'm sure he thinks that I'm a Bush croney. But I think he left after he started losing debates in the IR.

Haha, I wanted to note that I think Deagle moved back to BF since I'm seeing complaints about/from him there now when I goto check out BF's computer discussion forum (bigger geek visitors over thataway then wb sadly).

-Neo

emyl84

04-29-2006, 9:53 PM

Valjean

04-29-2006, 10:28 PM

my first kiss was at sunset in the beach, thougth that my life depends on it.
pd: excuse me if i do not speak the english very well. kiss for all de girls.

i can teach salsa to everybody, seriously, kisses

You win a prize.

*Valjean lifts the U.S. Embago of Cuba

Anyway, my first kiss was in preschool from some girl who apparently liked me in preschool. Preschool for me, now that I look back on it, was a blur and didn't really make sense. It's hard to look back on preschool and understand my thought process, mostly because my thought process was not very logical. At all. :/

I haven't had a real first kiss yet though. Or even a real relationship. I wish to wait for the right person at the right time.

GenocideAlive

04-29-2006, 10:42 PM

Schwitzer

04-29-2006, 10:46 PM

So...you guys discussed kissing before you got to Disney Land?
Premeditated kiss?

GenocideAlive

04-29-2006, 10:58 PM

Premeditated kiss?
See, this is why I was creeped out earlier.

Protosschick99

04-29-2006, 11:53 PM

lolz--Yeah we did :D And I am totally missing him right now....He just dropped me off at my house and I'm sad :*(

JenJen

04-30-2006, 12:33 AM

My first kiss was in the parking lot of Wendy's. Sounds really weird but we had grabbed some frostys. Not even butterflies...it made my stomache flip over. it was the weirdest feeling in the world. Since then it doesnt do that very often but when it does you know it was a really good kiss. :)

Schwitzer

04-30-2006, 2:04 AM

Black.Ice

04-30-2006, 2:25 AM

It's hard to look back on preschool and understand my thought process, mostly because my thought process was not very logical. At all. :/

Dude, it's still not logical. Don't forget that!

Was this with Aaron?

Do I sense some jealousy in your post? :D

Schwitzer

04-30-2006, 2:53 AM

Do I sense some jealousy in your post? :D
Jealous of Jen or jealous of Aaron? :P

Pisces

04-30-2006, 5:48 AM

flirt more, always werx. men are very easily manipulated once you get the hang of it... they rarely think with their brain :)

Hey, we think with our brains! But when a girl starts flirting our brains go to hell so we have to think with our penis or feet (or in my case spleen).

PC: I can understand someone waiting for sex, even I did that. But waiting for a kiss seems very strange...Is this guy your first relationship? Because I can't imagine having a real relationship without kissing.

EvilEggCracker

04-30-2006, 9:42 AM

PC: I can understand someone waiting for sex, even I did that. But waiting for a kiss seems very strange...Is this guy your first relationship? Because I can't imagine having a real relationship without kissing.

Yeah, it's kinda stupid waiting for the right time too kiss....

I have too agree with GA on this thread. Its really weird. Your all like 20 year olds and some of you haven't even made out with someone....What is wrong with you people?

SarahK

04-30-2006, 10:23 AM

dunchy

04-30-2006, 11:37 AM

JenJen

04-30-2006, 11:44 AM

Was this with Aaron?

yes it was with AJ :)

Protosschick99

04-30-2006, 11:46 AM

well... for some definitely, it's probably that they're geeks and look like shite ;0 lol
had to be said. anime/final fantasy fans in particular always seem to look as bad as the stuff they worship
hehe: www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=anime_nerd (http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=anime_nerd)

I do not look like....That word, lolz :P

New picture peeps! For those that don't know what I look like--Pink hat with sunglasses :)

http://img136.imageshack.us/img136/3789/tacobellnerds9ag.jpg

And my regular one :D

http://img221.imageshack.us/img221/9693/me7sr.jpg

And if I wanted to wait for the right one then oh well :D That's my perogative. And guess what else pplz?? I'm still a virgin too! :D *GASP* lolz. Most of you should know that by now.

kongurous

04-30-2006, 11:49 AM

Two things: 1) The chick on the right on the first pic looks like her eyes are about to explode out of her VERY FUCKING HEAD, well, that, or she sees something really freaky and is about to jump out of her skin/deer caught in headlights, and 2) wtf do pictures have to do with kissing?

SarahK

04-30-2006, 5:35 PM

lol
do we have a picture thread?

BlackHawk

04-30-2006, 6:00 PM

The one I count was last year, at camp, on the dock sitting in the Yellow Chair at night with the moon out, it was a great setup; however, it was just a peck.

The one I don't count, for different reasons, would be a long time ago in Grade 6 or so.

frazz

04-30-2006, 7:31 PM

Wow all these are really romantic sounding. On a dock under the moon? On the other hand maybe you only notice all taht during your first kiss.

ScottieIWU

04-30-2006, 8:16 PM

Waiting for the right kiss is lame, if not creepy. After all, it is just a kiss, you're not banging the guy. My approach is to just keep at it and kiss whoever, whenever. It works pretty well, I definitely know what girls I don't like.

As for my first kiss:

In 7th grade I went bowling and this bitch stole my shoes and told me I had to kiss this other girl to get them back.

I did not leave bowling barefoot that day. We also continued that kissing this past summer, 6 years later.

I effing rock.

TheNutCracker

04-30-2006, 8:20 PM

Mine was back at camp when I was 14. I don't count pecks as first kisses by the way, I count using tongue as a first kiss but that's just me. Pecks are so boring and meaningless.

GrassDragon

04-30-2006, 8:22 PM

Wow all these are really romantic sounding. On a dock under the moon? On the other hand maybe you only notice all taht during your first kiss.
Ha, the chick that first kissed me was talking on her cell phone at the time...

SarahK

04-30-2006, 8:26 PM

In 7th grade I went bowling and this bitch stole my shoes and told me I had to kiss this other girl to get them back. lol owned :)

hammocksleeper

04-30-2006, 9:04 PM

I'm just reading some of the posts and thinking, how can you say you have a romatic relationship with someone when there is no romantic (or sexual) involvement? I mean, saying you are going to be someone's girlfriend implies a commitment of exclusivity, but what exactly are you commiting to keep exclusive?

JenJen

04-30-2006, 9:10 PM

you dont have to have a sexual relationship with someone before you count it as a relationship. thats ridiculous.

GrassDragon

04-30-2006, 9:19 PM

you dont have to have a sexual relationship with someone before you count it as a relationship. thats ridiculous.
You do have to have some kind of exclusive romantic activity to call it a romantic relationship though.

TheNutCracker

04-30-2006, 9:20 PM

I don't get how you can have a relationship with someone and not do anything intimate after the first date or whatever. I can't see calling something it a relationship if all you do is hang out a lot, and do nothing more.

pixels

04-30-2006, 9:35 PM

haha either your wording is totally incorrect or you just dont realize it

calling something it a relationship if all you do is hang out a lot, and do nothing more.

i guess i dont have relationships with friends because i dont touch them.

MidnightGladius

04-30-2006, 9:37 PM

You do have to have some kind of exclusive romantic activity to call it a romantic relationship though.

(my emphasis)

Well, duh : /

My belief (which perhaps is flawed/ignorant) is that you don't necessarily have to be physically intimate with someone for it to be considered a relationship; rather, I think that the defining key is a great deal of mutual trust and respect, a level equal if not greater to that of good/best friends. That, in my belief, sets the foundation for the "bond" that I hear people in my parents' generation talk about - I'm not sure, however, if that still exists today.

GrassDragon

04-30-2006, 9:51 PM

(my emphasis)

Well, duh : /
I thought it was obvious too, but it seemed like JenJen misunderstood.

hammocksleeper

04-30-2006, 9:59 PM

I don't think Jen was confused, but I do think pixels was confused, or being a smartass with semantics.

RockGod333

04-30-2006, 10:32 PM

i got banned for a day becase of thes thread :(

TheNutCracker

04-30-2006, 10:42 PM

pixels

04-30-2006, 10:44 PM

aha i know what you mean. hammock was right

MidnightGladius

04-30-2006, 10:49 PM

What I meant is a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. And if there is no physical activity at all between the two, I don't think it could be considered that. I think it would be considered a "just friends" relationship, and I don't think girlfriend/boyfriend relationships can exist without physical stuff.

The only problem with that is that from what I'm seeing every day, the connotations of "just friends" has been stretched so far that saying that will more likely than not do little to explain the situation correctly.

While we're at it, how physical does a couple need to be to be considered under your criteria? I personally think that that level is dictated entirely by trust between the two, anyways.

SpeedyWorm1

04-30-2006, 10:57 PM

ScottieIWU

04-30-2006, 11:39 PM

Because relationships will never, ever be that simple.

JenJen

04-30-2006, 11:49 PM

because relationship is the same as love: defined differently for each person.

dunchy

05-01-2006, 12:10 AM

being just friends is when you like somebody who doesnt like you and they ask if you can be "Just Friends" which means,

No kissing
No going out
Yes- Hugging

A relationship is when two people have an intimate bond between them, and kiss/hug/ etc etc, each other. I don't see how something that seems so simple to me :D can generate a humongous arguement :shiftyr:

Dude, no offense but you shouldn't talk about relationships when you look that young in that picture.

Jenjen had it right though. 1 night stands do not mean relationships in a romantic settings. Sexual relationships do not mean anything at all.

****** ** * ******** *******. < JenJen I leave it up to you.

GenocideAlive

05-01-2006, 12:48 AM

I'm fairly certain that "just friends" don't kiss each other on the mouth with any more than a peck, tops. You don't run around kissing guys that you don't have something more than a "friends" feeling going. Cultural standards aside (Italians, Middle Easterners, etc.).

Kazansky

05-01-2006, 9:40 AM

I don't remember the first time I was kissed... then again, I can't even remember how many times me and my girlfriend made out in the movie theater... man, my memory sucks.

RockGod333

05-01-2006, 10:57 PM

thats super

JenJen

05-01-2006, 11:00 PM

i dont understand the people who make out in theaters i mean it costs a lot of money to see one movie i want to actually watch it. you can make out somewhere for free.

DragonPaladin

05-01-2006, 11:03 PM

they(men) rarely think with their brain

It depends. When all the blood is rushing to your penis...your brain gets less of the oxygen than it needs.

GrassDragon

05-01-2006, 11:30 PM

i dont understand the people who make out in theaters i mean it costs a lot of money to see one movie i want to actually watch it. you can make out somewhere for free.
I used to do it because I couldn't drive and my parents wouldn't often let me go places alone. I guess they figured the movies were pretty safe if they dropped me off before and picked me up after. Plus our theater is only two bucks here.

Now watch, my mom is going to look through the forum tomorrow, see this post, and give me a talking to tomorrow night :P

DragonPaladin

05-01-2006, 11:32 PM

Plus our theater is only two bucks here.

Wow...our theaters....they just lowered the price a bit and its still like 5 dollars a shot, and that's before 6PM. after 6, its more expensive. Hmm...I don't like watchin movies at knight...that's good for me.

Now watch, my mom is going to look through the forum tomorrow, see this post, and give me a talking to tomorrow night

Edit button works wonders.

frazz

05-02-2006, 12:45 AM

Plus our theater is only two bucks here.
Is that the theater that plays all the old movies? I have a 2$ theater here, and I plan to go see RV once it goes to the "hobo theater" as my friend calls it.
And making out in theaters is annoying. Trust me, I've been within feet of these makeout people in a theater. Sure, it may sound good when you're making out(not that i would know, I'm not a makeout type of person), but it sounds like someon chewing with their mouth open and slurping soup at the same time if you're right next to them. Worst of all, it totally ruined the mood during firewall. :(

Kazansky

05-02-2006, 1:08 AM

i dont understand the people who make out in theaters i mean it costs a lot of money to see one movie i want to actually watch it. you can make out somewhere for free.
*BUZZER* That's where we had a problem. If we went to my house, the guards were on specific instructions NOT to let her inside the building. If we went to her house, her three sisters were there. We had no choice EXCEPT the theater. :P

Wow...our theaters....they just lowered the price a bit and its still like 5 dollars a shot, and that's before 6PM. after 6, its more expensive. Hmm...I don't like watchin movies at knight...that's good for me.
Hm... if the currency over here was converted... woohoo! Only $2.00 a pop! (And that's from 10:00am to until closing time. :D) And of course you don't watch movies with a 15th century geezer in armor... (knight)

Is that the theater that plays all the old movies? I have a 2$ theater here, and I plan to go see RV once it goes to the "hobo theater" as my friend calls it.
And making out in theaters is annoying. Trust me, I've been within feet of these makeout people in a theater. Sure, it may sound good when you're making out(not that i would know, I'm not a makeout type of person), but it sounds like someon chewing with their mouth open and slurping soup at the same time if you're right next to them. Worst of all, it totally ruined the mood during firewall. :(
We make out silently. :ninjal:

Leosam096

05-02-2006, 3:10 AM

my first kiss came in the most unexpected time and would the most disturbing time of my life.

Vallejo, California - many years ago
at my old church back when i was just 10 years old, i sat there quietly as my friends play with that four year old girl Yen Yen, but others call her princess. i simply call her Yen Yen.
She came to me and asked me to play with her. I agreed. Then she recklessly pulled me back and let me hit the floor, she was so strong for just a little 4 year old girl.

She mumbled something but i couldn't make out what she was uttering, but i finally knew that when she pulled my eyelids down she meant, "Close your eyes." So i was still there, laying down on my back. I expected her to play with me by her being the doctor. So i remained there with my eyes closed.

Then, she started to hum some tune... Eh? it sounded like... Oh no! Sleeping Beauty! She sat on the floor beside me.The moment I became aware, she just =Kissed me on the lips! Yargghh! Blashfrggplopppttthhhhaaathaaa(in slow motion)!
Ah,Great! My first kiss is ruined, by a little 4 year old girl!

aw well, i didn't mind "much" right after she kissed me, i just screamed aloud wailing and ran around the church, told the whole Organization that my first kiss was on Princess, cried to my mother and then my father... end.

ever since, i got scared of watching Sleeping Beauty and never watched it ever since then. Now i'm just fine. :D

frazz

05-02-2006, 3:02 PM

We make out silently.
apparently you're some kinda pro at that because most ppl don't.

JenJen

05-02-2006, 5:58 PM

the theater by me is like 8 50 or something ridiculous unless it's a matinee. we use to have a cheap one when i was little but its gone now.

frazz

05-02-2006, 6:06 PM

A new theater opened here a few months ago and it's more than 10$ if it's not a matinee. And the popcorn is like 5 bucks for a bag.

hammocksleeper

05-02-2006, 6:36 PM

i dont understand the people who make out in theaters i mean it costs a lot of money to see one movie i want to actually watch it. you can make out somewhere for free.

I'm with you one-hundred percent on that one. Not to mention a movie is a pretty shitty place to take a date in the first place.

JenJen

05-02-2006, 6:41 PM

TinyDancer

05-02-2006, 6:41 PM

The nearest theatre to me charges $6.50 for a matinee, and $8 for a normal show, I think. There's one a little further that's only $4 for a matinee, $6 for a normal show. I would go to GD's theatre, but I'd spend whatever I might have saved on gas.

I don't like sitting next to people who make out in theatres, but I've never been the one doing it, so I don't judge. Heh. It is a private place, without worry of parents (usually), so I can understand why people spend the money.

hammocksleeper

05-02-2006, 6:46 PM

why is it bad? i love going to the movies. thats where AJ and i went on our first date. Now i think we watch everything to can afford in time and money. mostly blockbuster tho. only three bucks, and free beverages.

You guys must have really clicked then because especially if it's a first date I think the movies is a bad place to go. for starters, you have no opportunity to talk to your date. I like going somewhere where we can actually hold some semblance of a conversation. Also there are often sexy guys like Clooney or Pitt on screen that compete with you. And there are more romantic and mood-insipring places to get your groove on. Just a few thoughts :)

JenJen

05-02-2006, 6:52 PM

oh got ya. yeah i'm not a talker really and we knew each other from school so it worked for us.

Protosschick99

05-02-2006, 8:44 PM

Dang man, you guys get charged next to nothing >.<

Out here, the regular is $9.00 - $12.00

Matinee is $6.00 - $7.00

I rarely go to matinee's >.<

As for kissing--I got a question for you peeps--Anybody here make sure they at least stuck a mint in or chewed gum or something?? :P lolz

GrassDragon

05-02-2006, 8:53 PM

Is that the theater that plays all the old movies? I have a 2$ theater here, and I plan to go see RV once it goes to the "hobo theater" as my friend calls it.
No, we have a $1 theater that plays all the old movies. It's $2 before 6 and it's all the new releases. But you do get what you pay for; it's located in a mall full of crazy teenagers and the seats suck. Almost all of them are broken in some way and they are not very comfortable. But 2 bucks allows me to see nearly any movie that comes out.

I'm with you one-hundred percent on that one. Not to mention a movie is a pretty shitty place to take a date in the first place.
I do agree with you there though.

pixels

05-02-2006, 9:04 PM

yeah i dont want to go to the movies for my first date either.

i dunno where. theres nothing around here. the only other place is the mall.

fucking movie dates are so cliche and lame.

Darmago

05-02-2006, 9:07 PM

You guys must have really clicked then because especially if it's a first date I think the movies is a bad place to go. for starters, you have no opportunity to talk to your date. I like going somewhere where we can actually hold some semblance of a conversation. Also there are often sexy guys like Clooney or Pitt on screen that compete with you. And there are more romantic and mood-insipring places to get your groove on. Just a few thoughts :)

I think movies are a lot more entertaining if you can share the thoughts of those with you.

Joker365

05-02-2006, 9:10 PM

First kiss eh? i don't have a real first kiss, it was more of a spur of the moment, 'grab anyone close by' (on her part). She was 16 and i was 15 then and my best friend (chik, we've known each other for life), and that day she was really happy, i think it was after her first date with her current boyf, for some reason, so she just grabbed my head and kissed me (no tongue or anything). then she said sorry and ran off (to find him i guess)

at the time, i had no idea wat was going on.

Sikawtic

05-02-2006, 9:38 PM

Hmmm... when I was around 6ish I used to make out with my uncle's girlfriend's daughter. They eventually got married though... so it's not something I like to flaunt around. (But I was 6... so it's not my fault).

My first *real* kiss? hmmm.... well I think I was 14 and I was at a dance with my gf and we were slow dancing and we started kissing... it was kinda akward... so my first *likeable* kiss was with my 2nd gf.

I've haven't frenched yet.. and I'm single atm so I don't see it happening anytime soon (I'm at one of those places where I appreciate the company of girls but don't really feel the need to be with one... I'm kinda picky so it may be awhile.)

pixels

05-02-2006, 9:40 PM

(I'm at one of those places where I appreciate the company of girls but don't really feel the need to be with one... I'm kinda picky so it may be awhile.)
yeah thats where i was.

til this girl started crushing on me :x

also, kissing is kind of weird if you think about it ._.'

GenocideAlive

05-02-2006, 10:58 PM

Girlfriends. Man, that takes me back.

SarahK

05-03-2006, 6:01 PM

pixels: "kissing is weird"

lol ;0

TinyDancer

05-03-2006, 6:43 PM

I agree with pixels. Kissing is totally weird.

Going to movies on first dates....Some movies are okay, horror movies and such, I like going to, because you can be goofy and make fun of the stuff that tries to be scary. I don't like going to romantic comedies on dates, because it feels like a lot of pressure is being put on me to be like the cutesy people in the movie, and that's just not who I am. When I went on my first "date" with my first boyfriend, it was to go see Hitch. The movie was good, but I felt awkward when it was over. GrassDragon was actually there too, so was my date's little sister, and another guy. Haha...

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HyperDemonic

05-04-2006, 6:49 AM

hmmm.. my first kiss was back in Grade K i think i was 5 years old,well any way it was with a girl that i did like like, back then but after this happen she move i haven seen her:cry: ... any way i was waiting for the bus to pick us up to take us home when some 4 or 5 grader came up to me and push my into a wall and the next thing i knew there where about 5 or 6 of them pushing me aginst it then she came up and kiss me.after that when we where on the bus i ask her y and she said they where gonna beat up her sister up (who was as old as they where) if she doesnt. (i think they lied to her)

EvilEggCracker

05-04-2006, 12:58 PM

My first kiss was a frenchie...I dont really count a kiss without tongues a kiss...

Valjean

05-04-2006, 6:46 PM

My first kiss was a frenchie...I dont really count a kiss without tongues a kiss...

Do you mean that you don't count it as an important kiss or that you just don't count it as a kiss at all? O_o

Graeme

05-04-2006, 7:27 PM

Most of my most memorable kisses have been without tongue . . .

Morkeliph

05-04-2006, 8:14 PM

I agree. Kissing without tongue takes away the "I'm kissing you just because I want your body" aspect of things. I has meaning on a more of an (dare I say it?) emotional level.

Now everyone can poke fun at me for showing my sensitive side.

hammocksleeper

05-04-2006, 8:30 PM

Kissing without tongue takes away the "I'm kissing you just because I want your body" aspect of things.
Depends on where you're kissing them. ;)

Morkeliph

05-04-2006, 8:31 PM

True, but even that is less sensual than doing the same with tongue.

Protosschick99

05-05-2006, 4:22 PM

I've never kissed with tongue before.

It would be at a time in my life where I know that I truly love this person ;)

JenJen

05-05-2006, 6:09 PM

you have to truly love the person to kiss with tongue? why dont you just not kiss at all. french kissing is nothing more and perhaps less than a really good regular kiss. I mean sex sure i can see that. you're showing them something they havent seen of you, you're giving them something you can only give once but unless you're a wack job i'm pretty sure people have seen your tongue before.

Protosschick99

05-05-2006, 7:38 PM

Spartan-II

05-05-2006, 7:41 PM

What the fuck? It's your damn tongue! No offense, but that's fucking weird.

ScottieIWU

05-05-2006, 8:40 PM

Dude, I'm not gonna go around french kissing every single guy that I like--When you give that part of yourself to someone you can never take it back--Which is why I said what I said--Same goes with my virginity--I ain't about to do anybody unless he is my husband :DOld fashioned sentiments ftw.

Honestly, I'm not pro-promiscuity and I think saving sex for comitted, trusting relationships is positive, but saving it for a husband is a bit over the edge for me. However, despite that, I still understand-to an extent-why people do it.

However, not kissing with tongue? I have a hard time understanding that.

Subjukator

05-05-2006, 8:45 PM

eighth grade with the girl who lived in the house behind me in her mom's basement barber shop after hours. best kiss ever

GrassDragon

05-05-2006, 11:35 PM

The tongue is really not that big of a deal... It's just more fun.

But I've heard of some fundies that won't kiss at all until they're married. Something about how the kiss at the altar is supposed to be the first one (we need an eye rolling smiley).

GenocideAlive

05-05-2006, 11:36 PM

What the fuck? It's your damn tongue! No offense, but that's fucking weird.
Some people have so few things that are worthwhile that things like that seem very valuable. I really hate to think what happens to people with this viewpoint that get raped. I mean, the life of self-imposed misery and shame.

JenJen

05-06-2006, 12:25 AM

no. people like that make up excuses if they get raped. oh i didnt give it away so it doesnt count blah blah.

Forsaken_One

05-06-2006, 2:29 AM

First kiss...

13 years old, in the back of a YMCA van with an 8th grader. I found it in High School, that she is one of the biggest sluts. But, hey, I tapped it young! Not really....

IrishDutchman

05-06-2006, 6:41 AM

HAH, my first was when I was 12! (a french kiss)
It was while I was watching a movie with a two girls and a mate, and I ended up kissing through nearly the whole movie, cause it was really boring (Thirteen and Mean Girls *puke*)

Protosschick99

05-06-2006, 1:04 PM

I'm old fashioned when it comes to dating and kissing and whatnot--Trust me I get made fun of for my values at school--But it's not gonna phase me :D

I was actually surprised when this dude I barely know told me that he respects me because I respect myself enough to not give it away to just whoever and that I am waiting until marriage.

And yes I've heard of those ppl who wait to kiss until the alter--Shoot I give them mad kudos because I know it's hard not to kiss someone that you love. So good job for them! :D

IrishDutchman

05-06-2006, 1:18 PM

I think it's fine if someone stays traditional, as long as it's their own decision and it's not forced on them by their parents or anything like that.

Spartan-II

05-06-2006, 1:55 PM

I think it's bullshit. I can understand saving your virginity, but fucking kissing? What the hell, let's keep handshakes and hugs for marraige too.

U-238

05-06-2006, 1:57 PM

I can't beleive that a thread about kissing could get so much damn attention. It's sickening to me to think that thats considered "good discussion" anywhere.

Spartan-II

05-06-2006, 1:58 PM

If you don't like it then go somewhere else.

pixels

05-06-2006, 3:45 PM

If you don't like it then go somewhere else.
yeah no kidding.

fuck you for raining down on this parade, eh? dont like it fuck off.

and im not going to be nice about it.

get back the fuck on topic.

frazz

05-06-2006, 4:43 PM

I have a policy of not going out with girls that french of their first date. It makes me wonder how much they care.

SarahK

05-06-2006, 4:45 PM

lolol

feel like just a piece of meat ah???

~snickeR~

TinyDancer

05-06-2006, 4:58 PM

I think it's bullshit. I can understand saving your virginity, but fucking kissing? What the hell, let's keep handshakes and hugs for marraige too.

Some people do. It's really frightening.

ScottieIWU

05-06-2006, 5:43 PM

And yes I've heard of those ppl who wait to kiss until the alter--Shoot I give them mad kudos because I know it's hard not to kiss someone that you love. So good job for them! :DPart of me wonders if these people who wait to kiss until marriage even know what love is. I'm not going to say that love is or should be mostly or all physical, but there is enough of a physical aspect that I don't think I could say I love somebody without having kissed that person.

Again, I understand the sex thing because, well, that has more of a social stigma attached to it--especially for women. However, I still don't see the kissing.

SarahK

05-06-2006, 7:20 PM

the sex thing because, well, that has more of a social stigma attached to it--especially for women.

Yeah! :mad::mad:

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Spartan-II

05-06-2006, 7:23 PM

Well, men can be whores too. It's just that alot of men view other men who have alot of experience as people to look up to, while most women think the exact opposite.

Guys, can we get back on topic?

ScottieIWU

05-06-2006, 8:06 PM

Guys, can we get back on topic?So a good discussion being started as a result of this post means we need to get back on topic? Erm, strange.

Anyway, Sarah, it's pretty true. That's part of why I understand so much that girls will wait until marriage or--like many girls I currently know--until they're in a pretty committed relationship where they trust that the guy won't go around flaunting it.

Still, though. I've never heard a girl called a slut because she kisses guys with tongue too much.

Spartan-II

05-06-2006, 8:08 PM

Oddly enough, yeah. If it doesn't have to do with the title of the thread, and the creater of the thread doesn't start the discussion, it's considered off-topic. :(

I am saving my virginity for a commited and trusting relationship where she won't tell people about my small penis.

Protosschick99

05-06-2006, 8:21 PM

I've been called a slut before, lolz. And I laughed because I'm a virgin so yeah :D

Anywayz--Spartan dude--That made me laugh, lolz :D

ScottieIWU

05-06-2006, 8:22 PM

Good call, Spartan. I hope that works out for you and she doesn't dump you when she sees it. That would be sad.

Spartan-II

05-06-2006, 8:37 PM

Yeah, then i'd be fucked, but not literally.

Fred1000000

05-06-2006, 8:44 PM

I.....Haven't....Had one. That counted.

There WAS New Years Eve, when a long time friend just HAD to, but that don't count, as I've known her all me like and now she's like, 20.

And the when I was in the musical "Guys and Dolls", me and a fellow crapshooter did the whole fakie "Hand-over-the-mouth-hilarity" thing to entertain the other crapshooters.

But, nope, no REAL ones that have COUNTED. I don't really want one either.

Actually, yes I do. but no., Yes? Oh, I don't care. Take it or leave it, for pie or for awesome. This is Fred, signing off. Good night, sleep tight, don't let those dang bed bugs "do something" to you in your sleep. If you catch my drift.

GenocideAlive

05-07-2006, 1:37 AM

I'm old fashioned when it comes to dating and kissing and whatnot--Trust me I get made fun of for my values at school--But it's not gonna phase me Believe it or not, people are ridiculed for just about everything in public schools. Your values, your hair, your choice of friends, your clothes, whatever they can fabricate or use to hurt you. That your values are ridiculed isn't anything special other than it makes you feel martyred for your religion--which is a massive turn on for fundamentalists.
I was actually surprised when this dude I barely know told me that he respects me because I respect myself enough to not give it away to just whoever and that I am waiting until marriage. 20 years old and you were "surprised" that someone shared your values...um, yeah.
And yes I've heard of those ppl who wait to kiss until the alter--Shoot I give them mad kudos because I know it's hard not to kiss someone that you love. So good job for them! Yeah, geez. I bet it's even harder to avoid touching them altogether! Man, mad props to those guys, right? Because that which is difficult is by merit noble; like for instance picketing soldiers' funerals and hollering that God hates them. Everybody is so vehemently opposed to their demonstration, I'm sure it's very difficult. Mad props to those guys for enduring everybody's disapproval and attempts to "phase" their beliefs.

Sikawtic

05-07-2006, 2:02 AM

I like touching girls. No fucking way that's waiting til marriage.

Protosschick99

05-07-2006, 2:03 AM

Okay GA--Shut up about religion please--This is a first kiss thread. And I don't agree with those ppl--They need to get in the Word more and stop tripp'n. It angers me that they would picket soldiers funerals.

I don't want you to get in trouble so just keep this thread on topic please :) Btw--I was surprised because usually I get made fun of for being a virgin :P