I'm tired of making myself crazy because of my ex

[LinkTheGameFreak]

i don't feel like going into detail, but in essense she is complaining she still loves me after she broke up with me twice and I kept giving her chances

she says i'm the perfect bf, and i never did anything to deserve how she treated me

i showed her pics of me and my gf and she got pissed cuz in one we were kissing (under the mistletoe :D) and says I do things like that to shove it in her face that she messed up...

I finally got pissed when I saw her LJ today (I didn't know she had one) and she had 2 entries from the past 3 days directed towards me and I finally got so pissed that I rapid fire deleted her on any account i talk to her on, replied (angrily) to her LJ posts (one thing i mentioned was how "classy" she was to break up with me cuz she thought I would cheat on her in college, but when she got to her college, she was soooo lonely she had sex with her ex, who only used her)

I'm just so sick of the "let's throw a pity party" mentality she has when she brought this all on herself...

[Aquarian]

Hm...Maybe you should try talking to Geno (http://www.warboards.org/member.php?u=31).Add him in MSN or something...

[LinkTheGameFreak]

I'll be fine, this just came at a bad BAD time right now... finals and I can't concentrate as it is...

[Demon_Child]

Ah, the jealous possessive type who also has a knack for being a two-timer as well. I say that it serves her right and good riddance to bad rubbish. No sense in having to trouble yourself over her again. :)

[LinkTheGameFreak]

Ah, the jealous possessive type who also has a knack for being a two-timer as well. I say that it serves her right and good riddance to bad rubbish. No sense in having to trouble yourself over her again. :)

she had this idea I was going to cheat on her when i got to college, but if she even knew me anyone knows I'm a very loyal person

the gf i had before her was the only girl i'd ever cheated on and that situation (while unexcusable) was different because I hadn't seen her in 4 years or more (we started a phone and letter relationship)

I'm kind of ashamed at what I posted on her livejournal, but partof me is glad i finally told her some of the things i held back

[Demon_Child]

She is still far too insecure and would have been a heavy load on your shoulders. Besides, you did the right thing and tossed that boat anchor overboard.

[LinkTheGameFreak]

well u know she dumped me TWICE before i came to college and I still came back to her... I'm just pissed that she thinks that I would have cheated on her...

something else; I still had/have strong feelings for her even after i started dating my current gf, and I was unsure of if I should try again with my ex or not, so even after it all we kept kinda flirting online and during thanksgiving i hung out with her and it was just like we never broke up (except we didn't do anything) and it felt right to be together, but I made the decision to stay with my current gf (which i feel is the best decision ever made)

and yes DC she is very insecure because she is a twin, and is the less hot and less intelligent one (according to her) and has an inferiority complex and never thinks she can do better than losers

[Demon_Child]

I would highly suggest that you let this one go. You already have someone and if she can't handle nor accept the fact that she became your "EX" for a reason, then that is her problem. She should start to move on with her life.

[LinkTheGameFreak]

thanks DC, it's what I wanted to do, just sometimes you never think things would have turned out a certain way... :( but life is shit and things happen sometimes :(

[Demon_Child]

We have all had to take some lumps from the hardships of reality and relationships. But expreience is what makes us better when we learn from out previous mistakes. Though, I cannot say that this is entirely true in this day in age, but normally "first loves" are almost never "true loves." Seriously, I hardly know anyone who I went to High School with who was still attached/married to their high school sweetheart. *shrugs*

[GrassDragon]

I'm just so sick of the "let's throw a pity party" mentality she has when she brought this all on herself...
Ironic. :P

I had a clingy girlfriend once, that to this day (we broke up nearly two years ago) says I'm perfect and all that crap. I basically just ignore her. Don't take girls back, it ends up being a waste. You can do better than a girl that dumps you and then crawls back for more.

[GenocideAlive]

Yeah, don't take this personally, but it's pretty easy to read this whole scenario in about two seconds. My recommendation is that you move on. Both of you. I seriously doubt she'll want to move on, as she's in possession of some abusive traits. You on the other hand, are either sprung on the booty or you're getting caught up in her head games. I'd be willing to bet on both. Either way, just believe that the break-up-get-together scenario will be played out over and over until one of you elects to take more mature steps in relationships.

[Geno]

I usually stay away from relationship threads, but seeing as how my bloody NAME AND PROFILE got mentioned... Heh... :P

Naw, but really, if you want to talk, feel free. Stacey and I broke up twice in our relationship... And hell, I drove 7 hours to go and meet her. That's like... Hellatious commitment. But I've learned to respect her decision.

I'd love to type more, but I have 10 minutes before class. *Rushes out*

~Larry "Geno" Meyers

[Modred]

There's always the "hit it and quit it" option, but that wouldn't fly too well with your current girlfriend, I'm sure.

[Ender]

Bah. Livejournals...the breeding place for drama.

[LinkTheGameFreak]

There's always the "hit it and quit it" option, but that wouldn't fly too well with your current girlfriend, I'm sure.

well i love my current gf, she hasn't done anything wrong ever with me and we've been dating longer than me and my ex did... I don't wanna hit it with my ex, I just wish she would stop the bullshit cuz SHE FUCKED UP, not me...

[GenocideAlive]

And on a side note, is there some way you can cut your .sig down to less than a half a page? I'm sure that you don't want anybody to miss your narcissistic rabble, but it's getting to the point of categorizing itself as a blog. That repeats itself every time you post. I think we can forego the LOOK AT ME MY NAME IS LINK cabbage in favor of the normal 2-3 line .sig without giving up too much content. As a matter of fact, I don't think you're in danger of losing any content. Whatsoever.

[LinkTheGameFreak]

And on a side note, is there some way you can cut your .sig down to less than a half a page? I'm sure that you don't want anybody to miss your narcissistic rabble, but it's getting to the point of categorizing itself as a blog. That repeats itself every time you post. I think we can forego the LOOK AT ME MY NAME IS LINK cabbage in favor of the normal 2-3 line .sig without giving up too much content. As a matter of fact, I don't think you're in danger of losing any content. Whatsoever.

trust me, my sig could be so much more worse, so please stop your bitching. wouldn't you rather this be at a 1 point font than at the rediculous 7 I put it at?

[GenocideAlive]

trust me, my sig could be so much more worse, so please stop your bitching. wouldn't you rather this be at a 1 point font than at the rediculous 7 I put it at?
So basically what you're saying is that yes, your sig is a blatant self-indulgence, but no, you won't change it because there's a way to make it worse. Basically that my complaint is completely valid and accurate, but that you're so egomanical that you'd rather threaten to amplify your obnoxious behavior rather than admit that it's excessive and trim it to a reasonable level.

And I find it ironic (like GlassDragon) that you're accusing me of bitching with your little emo thread, here.

[LinkTheGameFreak]

So basically what you're saying is that yes, your sig is a blatant self-indulgence, but no, you won't change it because there's a way to make it worse. Basically that my complaint is completely valid and accurate, but that you're so egomanical that you'd rather threaten to amplify your obnoxious behavior rather than admit that it's excessive and trim it to a reasonable level.

And I find it ironic (like GlassDragon) that you're accusing me of bitching with your little emo thread, here.

yes my sig is my way of displaying a few things I find amusing, and it's not even that big (it was about a bit bigger than Genos sig)

why do u find it necessary to criticize my 2 quotes and one image when I've already made it as small as I can make it and the point of this thread has nothing to do with my sig...

yes your point was valid that, according to your superior knowledge of art and design, my sig was TOO BIG, but seeing as how the thread has nothing to do with that I'd appeciate it if you make a separate complaint elsewhere... I'm pretty sure that the mods didn't mind it if I had 2 *small* quotes and my image supporting my band, so why should you?

I don't like that you roam the boards looking to only criticize people and offer no real advice other than self-indulgant criticism.

Also, looking at my original sig, it was NOWHERE near being a fucking halfpage, or close to becoming a blog... now if you hate my sig, stay out of my fucking threads cuz that's where I post the majority of all I have to say

Ironic. :P

I had a clingy girlfriend once, that to this day (we broke up nearly two years ago) says I'm perfect and all that crap. I basically just ignore her. Don't take girls back, it ends up being a waste. You can do better than a girl that dumps you and then crawls back for more.

I don't find it too ironic, if I had broken up with her then it would be ironic, but seeing as how she broke up with me then she should have not reason to bitch cuz she should have had a good reason to do so

[Aquarian]

I usually stay away from relationship threads, but seeing as how my bloody NAME AND PROFILE got mentioned... Heh...

Bleh.What happened to Ask Larry?:P

[GrassDragon]

No, I think it's ironic you say she's throwing herself a pity party when you made a thread to complain about a clingy girlfriend. And to us no less.

[LinkTheGameFreak]

No, I think it's ironic you say she's throwing herself a pity party when you made a thread to complain about a clingy girlfriend. And to us no less.

lol i had to tell someone...

the reason she's throwing a pity party is cuz SHE FUCKED UP... if you fuck up with someone in this manner, you shouldn't be allowed to complain cuz you dug your own hole...

i at least have a reason (valid reason) to complain, and that's cuz I got sideblinded and wasn't expecting it

[Night-Hawk]

Hm...Maybe you should try talking to Geno (http://www.warboards.org/member.php?u=31).Add him in MSN or something...

Ahhh Geno our online shrink :P

[Whiteknight]

Link and Genocide, cut it out. There's an imposed sig limit anyways, so take your squabble to PM or drop it.

[LinkTheGameFreak]

WK, I just noticed that I'm in ur sig :D